A narcissist loves to push people too far, but here's what they forget; pushing a certain person is a huge mistake.
That person is a super empath. Still, the narcissist holds no prisoners, and they will push the super empath for years. They're unaware what they're causing, because at some point, that person will stop loving the narcissist.
When that happens?
Wow. It's the single most catastrophic moment for the narcissist. They have no idea what they've done.
1 Let me explain what a Super Empath is
A super empath is far more than just a person who feels things deeply…
…They feel everything.
Whether it's you, me, or a total stranger passing them by in the street, a super empath will absorb whatever is around them, and I think that's the main attraction for narcissists and why they pursue these people.
Let's not forget about their other traits, too, because they matter. A super empath is a warm and caring person, and boy, do they forgive. They never let the good in others slip them by, and that can even be when every other person has given up on them.
A narcissist loves that a super empath makes excuses for bad behavior, as this becomes their permission to treat them however they want, with no consequences and nothing but understanding in return.
The super empath firmly believes everyone can change, and that's the kind of hope and delusion a narcissist loves the most.
For a narcissist, this is their total dream: they love the combined personality and character of someone who they can stay with for years and get away with so much with.
2 The narcissist doesn't take long to start getting to work
Why is it that nobody else has a problem with me except you? I wouldn't be acting this way if you didn't push all my buttons.
The narcissist loves to get to work right away, letting the super empath feel blame, shame and guilt from the get-go.
And what does the super empath do in exchange? They take it all in and turn it right back to themselves.
Everything bad that happens is because of me. I'm just not doing the right thing all of the time.
See also 5 Creepy Things Every Narcissist Hides Somewhere in Their HouseThey genuinely think if they keep trying to give more and more, that the narcissist will turn around and praise and love them the way they want them to.
It never works that way.
This is a dynamic that sticks, and the narcissist will do nothing but continue to take and take. Why would they stop? What's working, is working for them, and that's all they care about.
3 The Super Empath has limits in love, much to the shock of the narcissist
Here's what you need to know about super empaths, because their hope and love and commitment and consistency in making the relationship work only lasts a certain amount of time.
The narcissist is obviously not aware of this initially, but they will get the shock of their life when they finally find out.
A super empath can love big time, but there is not an endless supply of it. In fact, there are strict limits, and they may not even know themselves when those limits are reached.
One day there will be this shift, and it will never come from a place of drama, but it will change the entire course of the relationship.
There will one day be something the narcissist does that the super empath is done with, and as soon as that moment hits, the narcissist will never be able to reverse that damage.
It's a little bit like teaching the super empath how to not love them ever again.
And it works.
4 The biggest surprise is coming…!
Wounded empaths mean one thing, but they're nothing compared to a super empath who is just done with the narcissist.
Eventually, there will come a time where the super empath will stop chasing explanations from the narcissist as to why they're silent or angry. Conversations that would normally ruminate in their mind aren't given a second thought at 2am, and if there ever was a soft voice they'd use to pacify the narcissist, it will become extinct.
I'd say this was a really valuable time, as it marks a transition where the super empath steps back and sees exactly what's been going on, and that includes every single time the narcissist has manipulated them. Each time there has been guilt placed at their feet, the super empath will gather it all like evidence, and there is no distorting the truth at this point.
It's clarity for the super empath. It's this clear-minded, "I can see everything now," and when anyone gets to that point, it's impossible to unsee any of it.
The narcissist, therefore, cannot compete with the super empath. How could they even begin? They've got no power to turn back time and do it all over again, this time in a way the super empath never suspects them.
It's a nasty surprise for the narcissist, and leads them to think what a mistake they made in the first place by trying to fool someone who evidently was not to be messed with.
5 The narcissist is cornered, what next?!
A narcissist can try to love-bomb the super empath, but it won't really go down well. Have you ever tried to charm anyone who has seen the worst side of you on a regular basis? It just doesn't work, right? It's the same for the narcissist now; they've got nothing.
Sure, they can try:
I promise I've changed. You'll see a different side to me from now on. Nobody understood me like you do. I know I messed up, but I also know what we had was so real. Please don't give up on everything we've built together.
Words now mean nothing, and the super empath will use this moment to just stare at the narcissist and wonder why on earth they've bothered at all.
They're calm and focused, but don't mistake that for small; the super empath is anything but.
They feel free. Free from these games, and free from being the victim the narcissist so badly wanted them to be.
Never underestimate the strength of a super empath who simply does not care any more.
6 This is what the narcissist never sees coming
A narcissist meets you and wants the emotional attachment you bring to the table to be a permanent thing. They never assume you're going to leave, and will work out ways to keep you dependent on them.
See also THIS is What Makes NarcissistsThey firmly believe that with enough guilt and charm, and enough history between you, that you'll stay, or come back when the going gets tough. They indeed have that way with a lot of victims, but the super empath is someone different entirely.
They don't operate in the same way, and they withdraw emotionally because they have felt everything, and experienced all levels of pain from the narcissist.
Now it's their turn to live and walk away, because the love just isn't there.
And it will never come back.
