In life, we all want to know that the person we’re with is meant for us.

Nobody wants to waste their time building a foundation that’s only destined to be knocked down.

We don’t have that kind of energy.

Do you remember a situation where you felt this?

It is beautiful to see a person before you with whom you wanted it all to work out.

If you want clarity, I have carefully crafted three things you need to look out for to ensure you know a person is good for you.

I don’t want to talk about money. I don’t want to talk about promises.

I don’t want roses, or chocolates, or a movie date. (Well, the chocolates I … No…. Forget it).

Kissing Too Many Frogs

Some might see the fun in kissing frogs, but others not so much.

What do you think about it? Putting yourself out there and searching for

The One is not as easy as the movies make it. 

There’s usually no meeting up the top of the Empire State Building,

and no meet cute where doves are released and a nice soothing song is playing in the background. 

When you do meet that one meant for you, it will be confirmed only in time, and you have to trust time as a process in general. 

Needing to Raise The Bar

So with all those frogs you have kissed, there has to be a time you meet the prince or princess. 

As we all look for various traits in a person, it’s equally imperative to ensure they match with you in terms of values and morals, too.

So the following three things will be where you start in defining your forever with somebody. 

Let your one true love reveal themselves…. now!

These 3 Things Will Reveal A Person is Meant For You

#1 Connection

The big one.

Connection.

There’s little to no point in attempting a relationship with a person you don’t ‘feel.’ 

Tell me now through the power of thought teleportation that you have tried this.

Some of you may have even really convinced yourself that this one particular person has it all.

The wondrous way they make you feel, the way they make you laugh, the sex.

But what about when all of that is taken away? What is there left? 

Connection is when two people feel drawn to each other, and use that as the center of where everything else grows.

You consciously want to be together, and like moths to a flame, you were drawn to one another for more reasons than just those that scratch the surface. 

Connections can look like:

• How you communicate
• Allowing each other to be vulnerable
• Expressing gratitude; being grateful for the little things
• Kissing or hugging
• Conscious respect and trust

Some things go a really long way.

If you’re looking for a person who is meant for you, you need to look out for a connection that lasts, and not one meant to wither away quickly. 

It is in the permanence of connection you will see the permanence of love. 

#2 Want To Understand You

What does understanding mean to you?

I’ll give you an example.

Sally had a hard childhood, where one parent was incredibly overprotective, and the other was abusive.

She constantly felt batted between neglect and coddled.

Most days were filled with an underlying anxiety of, “What’s going to happen today? What mood will my dad be in?”

Some of those moods consisted of coming home from work with candy for her, and hearing from him that she is the light of his life.

Other days, he wouldn’t even speak to her. If she tried to engage, he would shout and criticize. 

Sally grew up wanting to make a change in her life, but never really knowing or having the tools to do so.

As time went on, she knew she wanted to meet somebody the opposite of her father. 

Sally met Robert, who was a quiet man. He sometimes struggled to find the right words, and he was the kind of man who would go about life without the need to brag, or buy the most expensive things.

He was happy, and content with what he had, and he wanted to find somebody special to share it with. 

When Sally met Robert, they enjoyed each other’s company. Over time, Sally told Robert about her childhood, and Robert spoke about his (not perfect for other reasons).

It was a moment of true understanding that connected them further.

This understanding came from Sally listening to what Robert had to say, and for Robert to understand that Sally’s childhood left scars.

Robert didn’t want to re-open those scars. Instead, he wanted to be the person who nurtured them.

He understood that Sally needed support from time to time, or reassurance that helped Sally feel validated. 

This is exactly what I mean by understanding.

The conscious effort to take the person you’re with, and understand that they’re made up of a million tiny pieces.

Life can get complex, and understanding only means finding a person meant for you. 

#3 Let You Be You

Acceptance.

I accept you for you, and you accept me for me.

Nobody is trying to change anybody, and neither person is attempting to manipulate them into losing themselves. 

Isn’t that what life and love is all about? I know for me, that’s where the real magic is. 

When you can authentically be yourself, you remain free to explore what goals and hobbies you have.

You get to hold onto what’s important to you, and what you feel strongly about.

None of it is called into question, or criticized.

This is what I mean when I say somebody is intended for you.

They are in no way displaying any signs of toxicity. They just want to see you happy and enjoy it when you are. 

Settling For Less

Some of you out there may be settling for less. Getting stuck into the habits and routines of ‘good enough for right now.’ 

I wanted to raise these three things as a standard that everybody should set for themselves.

With all three components, you know you’ve found somebody you’re meant to be with, and I feel that’s something we all deserve. 

Too often, these become lost in the fight for short-term attention or temporary gratification. 

No relationship can sustain such shallow waters, so for anything more.

There needs to be more awareness of who you are and the type of person you want to match physically, emotionally, and mentally. 

6 Strange Signs Someone is Thinking Of You

Signs!

When you’re driving, you will get to where you want to go by following the road signs laid out on the side.

An arrow this way, a junction that way.

Stop here. Go there.

The signs that aren’t there involve you looking a little deeper.

Those may be led by your own intuition, or what you can see around you.

It’s how you judge your next move, right?

What about when somebody is thinking of you? What do you have to go by?

Well, believe it or not, it’s the same thing.

You are led by what you see, and what you feel.

And yes – some are pretty strange!

Getting That Feeling

When there’s nothing around to confirm what you are feeling, you’re left with nothing but that feeling.

And I don’t want to oversell or undersell feelings.

They serve a purpose, and you can often make sense of a lot of otherwise nonsensical goings on by tuning into them. 

If somebody is thinking of you, many people will pick up on this energy if they lean towards being an empath. 

Walking into a room and immediately picking up on the energy is a great example of feelings you may get that you’re being thought about. 

And this doesn’t have to just be about love.

It can be any aspect of life where you are getting this vibe. Whatever way you look at it, feelings should never be ignored. 

Signs: Are You A Believer?

Most of us would like to say that we don’t believe in signs, but when you’re presented with one that’s pretty darn obvious, you can’t hide the fact that signs exist. 

So, if you notice changes around you, or with people you know, do you ever consider the fact that actually, there are thoughts involving you that are occurring?

Somebody wants to get closer to you, or they’re thinking about something you said, or did.

And how you come to realize this isn’t always through direct acts of being told, but understanding that signs give a lot away.

Let’s think about that in a little more detail. 

Strange Signs Somebody Is Thinking Of You

#1 Dreams

Hear me out! I’m not saying that our dreams send us psychic signs, but they are more important than you realize.

If somebody has crossed your mind recently, what is your brain going to do with that? 

When you sleep, it tries to make sense of it, and that person in particular will likely show up in your dreams more frequently. 

Let’s go back a few steps, though. What’s causing you to think about that person? I know that’s not what we’re here for.

However, it’s crucial to pick out that reason. Is it because they’ve been paying you more attention than usual? Have you spoken to them more?

That leads me to the final questions: 

Why might that be? Are they thinking of you?

Interesting thought, don’t you think?

#2 Energy Shift

Slightly mentioned before, but a topic I want to dig a little deeper. 

The energy shift of somebody you know will tell you a lot about what’s going on in their own worlds.

Thinking about it more deeply, it doesn’t take long to pick up on somebody who is trying to avoid you, or who doesn’t want to talk to you, or see you, does it?

So why should it be any different when you’re looking for a sign that they’re thinking of you?

Energy shifts can look like:

• More attention or thought paid to the conversations you have together
• Increased eye contact
• Being kinder in word or gesture
• Being more inquisitive, finding out how you are

These kinds of examples will shift the energy between you.

When one dynamic has been replaced with another, that’s where you will start to find those all-important answers. 

#3 A Change in Social Media Reactions/Posts

Changes will be inevitable if somebody is thinking of you, and one way to notice those changes is to start sitting up and paying attention to your social media profiles. 

If somebody is beginning to like or react to your posts when they’d usually lie under the radar, there’s something going on at their end. 

Moving on from reactions, you might want to think about posts.

Are there certain posts with subliminal messages that you are viewing?

Do you see memories of you and this person creeping up and being reposted by them?

Maybe they are tagging you in memes, or messages. If so, guess what? They saw the post and thought of you!

You don’t even need my help with this one – the universe is doing it for me! (and the power of algorithms, I guess!)

I mean – it couldn’t be more clearer if it tried to be – so keep your eyes peeled for what is likely to reveal the secret thoughts of somebody you know. 

#4 Showing Up To ‘Bump Into You’

Oh, look! I didn’t realize you’d be here!

Well, that would be more believable if the person you bumped into hadn’t already done so five times in the last fortnight!

If you are being thought of, there is going to be a certain shift in how often you see them – because they want to see you.

Look out for them the next time you need to head out and grab some bread!

#5 The Random Text

Beep, beep!

Your inbox is a little bit fuller now that you are receiving a text from a specific person who is thinking of you.

I know most texts are innocent, but think about it, if you get one, you were thought of even just a fraction.

The content of the text will reveal that there is a conversation they want to have with you, no matter their relationship with you. 

Random texts can be fun to receive” They can be the start of a new conversation that could be strewn with potential, so why not indulge?

#6 Mutual Friends?

Mutual friends are great at letting on, and they will do that the moment they mention somebody thinking of you.

Oh, I bumped into so-and-so last week .They asked how you are and how you’ve been.

I saw that person yesterday, and they said they hadn’t seen you in a while.

There we have it.

The mutual friend has planted the seed that you are in the thoughts of another. 

Think about this the next time you are caught up chatting with somebody you know, and think a little de