I want to whisper sweet nothings into your ear. 

I have so many hot things on my mind.

I have something special I want you to hear.

Hot things aren’t always what you think they might mean – but hey – if it’s hot, it’s hot, right?

When men say the right things, it really can stop a woman in her tracks for all the right reasons.

Buckle up, take a breath, and I will try not to make you blush too much.

Taken By Surprise?

I think anything that you like to hear is all the hotter when you hear it surprisingly. 

Going about your day while somebody pulls the brakes on sharply to pleasantly take you aback is exactly what I want to talk about, and it doesn’t always need to be sexual.

Women aren’t looking for that, and nor should it be the only thing men have to say to get them going. 

Being directly hot may work some of the time, but let’s remember that creativity is how we keep that spark alive – not just what you might assume would do the trick.

Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot!

If you’re ready to dive in, then so am I!

 “I’m Listening”

What a way to make an entrance, huh? There’s sometimes nothing hotter than knowing somebody is listening to you.

Listening means somebody has stopped what they’re doing, and is making you their priority.

It doesn’t go unnoticed with women, who like to know that what they have to say actually matters.

Listen up!

“You’re Beautiful”

Simple, yet so effective.

You’re beautiful is a really beautiful comment in itself to make.

I understand it might not sound overly hot, but that’s what makes it actually quite hot with a lot of women. 

What women like sometimes is to know that there are no sexual connotations to the compliment you’re giving them.

Not to mention beauty in its rawest meaning – inside and out.

If a man tells you that you’re beautiful, it means he sees you. 

And that is beautiful. 

“How Can I Support You?”

Stop what  you’re doing.

Your man wants to support you.

Not only does he want to support you, he is actually asking how he can best do that for you.

Is there a particular call he can make, or do you need him for a specific errand or step to assist you?

Your goals are important to him, evidently.

Beyond that, he values seeing you happy to the point where if he needs to step in, he will. 

That means a heck of a lot to many women – and is a pretty hot, bold move to make!

 “I Can’t Handle Myself Around You”

Okay, well I didn’t promise that all of the 8 things would be tame. Some are bound to be hot.

To get a man flustered? You’ve got to be doing something right for them.

If you’re getting them hot under the collar and they tell you, then congratulations! 

And what does this do to you? Well – let’s just say women find the hotness is immediately matched by how they take this comment!

Not being able to handle yourself is a sign that you can take their breath away fairly easily. They’re captivated by you!

“I Want You”

It’s the most direct way to get a woman’s attention, but this one can sway on the hot spectrum, depending on the scenario.

Women don’t want to hear this while they’re doing their taxes.

They don’t really want to hear it in the frozen section of the grocery store.

This is all about execution, and if men get it right, it can be a really hot thing for women to hear! 

And quite right, too! If you’re in love and have nothing to lose, then go for it!

These little phrases keep the spark of passion alive and kicking. 

“I’ve Been Thinking About You All Day”

We turn down the obvious heat on this one, but I will offer any women out there something I have learned.

I think I’m fairly confident enough to say that women don’t always like to be bombarded with the desires of their men.

Yes, it’s nice, and it can work some of the time, but women heat up by knowing they’re appreciated.

It isn’t just telling them they’re appreciated, it’s showing them that you appreciate them.

So – thinking about you all day means you’ve been on their mind, and they enjoy the fact that you’ve taken up that headspace. 

It switches something on, ladies, am I right?

And so it should. It’s a nice thing to say, and that makes a woman feel wanted, loved and special…

…and that converts to heat!

“You’re So Smart, It’s Actually Hot”

Hey, what a way to a woman’s good books than to honestly and innocently compliment them on their intelligence? 

Women and men are so similar, yet so different at the same time.

They both love to hear that they’re loved, but women love to hear good things about their character.

In a world where women are ridiculed and criticized for so much, it’s hot for them to hear that a non-physical part of them is admired so openly by a man.

It’s as if he is overlooking all the parts of her that you’d find in a magazine being pulled apart or highlighted.

It’s totally avoiding the parts of themselves they look in the mirror and feel insecure about.

This is truly looking at a woman for who she is, rather than what she looks like.

It’s a fantastic way to make your woman feel that heat. 

“I Want To Make You Feel Good”

What a broad, yet hot thing to say.

Define feeling good for me.

I’d include:

• Feeling confident
• Helping support somebody you love
• Listening and being there for someone
• Taking the lady in your life out for a date to where she loves to go
• Going shopping together and buying a new outfit for that date – something that makes them feel good
• Making them feel good physically or intimately

It covers all aspects of feeling good, but that doesn’t take away the meaning behind it. 

It’s hot, right? It’s saying, I’m here, and I want you to feel good, so I will do whatever it takes for you to feel that.

It’s a selfless act, one that means your woman gets to shine under the light of goodness.

And if you can be responsible for that happening then well done, you have said the final hottest thing possible to say to a woman!

6 Strange Signs Someone is Thinking Of You

Signs!

When you’re driving, you will get to where you want to go by following the road signs laid out on the side.

An arrow this way, a junction that way.

Stop here. Go there.

The signs that aren’t there involve you looking a little deeper.

Those may be led by your own intuition, or what you can see around you.

It’s how you judge your next move, right?

What about when somebody is thinking of you? What do you have to go by?

Well, believe it or not, it’s the same thing.

You are led by what you see, and what you feel.

And yes – some are pretty strange!

Getting That Feeling

When there’s nothing around to confirm what you are feeling, you’re left with nothing but that feeling.

And I don’t want to oversell or undersell feelings.

They serve a purpose, and you can often make sense of a lot of otherwise nonsensical goings on by tuning into them. 

If somebody is thinking of you, many people will pick up on this energy if they lean towards being an empath. 

Walking into a room and immediately picking up on the energy is a great example of feelings you may get that you’re being thought about. 

And this doesn’t have to just be about love.

It can be any aspect of life where you are getting this vibe. Whatever way you look at it, feelings should never be ignored. 

Signs: Are You A Believer?

Most of us would like to say that we don’t believe in signs, but when you’re presented with one that’s pretty darn obvious, you can’t hide the fact that signs exist. 

So, if you notice changes around you, or with people you know, do you ever consider the fact that actually, there are thoughts involving you that are occurring?

Somebody wants to get closer to you, or they’re thinking about something you said, or did.

And how you come to realize this isn’t always through direct acts of being told, but understanding that signs give a lot away.

Let’s think about that in a little more detail. 

Strange Signs Somebody Is Thinking Of You

#1 Dreams

Hear me out! I’m not saying that our dreams send us psychic signs, but they are more important than you realize.

If somebody has crossed your mind recently, what is your brain going to do with that? 

When you sleep, it tries to make sense of it, and that person in particular will likely show up in your dreams more frequently. 

Let’s go back a few steps, though. What’s causing you to think about that person? I know that’s not what we’re here for.

However, it’s crucial to pick out that reason. Is it because they’ve been paying you more attention than usual? Have you spoken to them more?

That leads me to the final questions: 

Why might that be? Are they thinking of you?

Interesting thought, don’t you think?

#2 Energy Shift

Slightly mentioned before, but a topic I want to dig a little deeper. 

The energy shift of somebody you know will tell you a lot about what’s going on in their own worlds.

Thinking about it more deeply, it doesn’t take long to pick up on somebody who is trying to avoid you, or who doesn’t want to talk to you, or see you, does it?

So why should it be any different when you’re looking for a sign that they’re thinking of you?

Energy shifts can look like:

• More attention or thought paid to the conversations you have together
• Increased eye contact
• Being kinder in word or gesture
• Being more inquisitive, finding out how you are

These kinds of examples will shift the energy between you.

When one dynamic has been replaced with another, that’s where you will start to find those all-important answers. 

#3 A Change in Social Media Reactions/Posts

Changes will be inevitable if somebody is thinking of you, and one way to notice those changes is to start sitting up and paying attention to your social media profiles. 

If somebody is beginning to like or react to your posts when they’d usually lie under the radar, there’s something going on at their end. 

Moving on from reactions, you might want to think about posts.

Are there certain posts with subliminal messages that you are viewing?

Do you see memories of you and this person creeping up and being reposted by them?

Maybe they are tagging you in memes, or messages. If so, guess what? They saw the post and thought of you!

You don’t even need my help with this one – the universe is doing it for me! (and the power of algorithms, I guess!)

I mean – it couldn’t be more clearer if it tried to be – so keep your eyes peeled for what is likely to reveal the secret thoughts of somebody you know. 

#4 Showing Up To ‘Bump Into You’

Oh, look! I didn’t realize you’d be here!

Well, that would be more believable if the person you bumped into hadn’t already done so five times in the last fortnight!

If you are being thought of, there is going to be a certain shift in how often you see them – because they want to see you.

Look out for them the next time you need to head out and grab some bread!

#5 The Random Text

Beep, beep!

Your inbox is a little bit fuller now that you are receiving a text from a specific person who is thinking of you.

I know most texts are innocent, but think about it, if you get one, you were thought of even just a fraction.

The content of the text will reveal that there is a conversation they want to have with you, no matter their relationship with you. 

Random texts can be fun to receive” They can be the start of a new conversation that could be strewn with potential, so why not indulge?

#6 Mutual Friends?

Mutual friends are great at letting on, and they will do that the moment they mention somebody thinking of you.

Oh, I bumped into so-and-so last week .They asked how you are and how you’ve been.

I saw that person yesterday, and they said they hadn’t seen you in a while.

There we have it.

The mutual friend has planted the seed that you are in the thoughts of another. 

Think about this the next time you are caught up chatting with somebody you know, and think a little de